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Switching to a new rule

Switching to a new rule in a game is hard for young children. In a card-sorting game, most 3-year-olds kept using the old rule even after being told the new one, and most 5-year-olds could switch.

We haven't yet found studies that measured the age when most children start. The sections below say what is known.

How sure are we?

Not sure yet. Only one small study with numbers has been read so far. How we know this

What it’s a sign of

Your child is learning to let go of one way of doing things and switch to another, part of flexible thinking.

If you’re worried about your child, talk to your child and family health nurse or GP.

Last checked 2 November 2026